From CEOs to cashiers, doctors to delivery drivers, teachers to tech entrepreneurs, an estimated 150 million Americans share one common job: being a parent.
We’re all aware about Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. But did you know about Parent’s Day? Parent’s Day is nationally observed every year on the fourth Sunday in July! This year, Parent’s Day falls on July 28th.
The first National Parents Day was celebrated on July 28th, 1995. Nearly 30 laters later, so much of our world has evolved. With that being said, it’s important to pause and consider that parenting styles are not static and continue to evolve. Like generations, parenting styles are influenced by historical events, changing values, societal norms, technological advancements, and so much more. Let’s take a look at some of those influences and how they’ve shaped our parenting styles…
The Greatest Generation
The Greatest Generation (Born between 1900 and 1925) Aka “G.I. Generation, the WWII Generation”
Major Life Events:
- The Great Depression
- World War II
- The Roaring Twenties
Parenting Style:
- A strong emphasis on discipline, obedience, and traditional values. Because of the economic hardships, this generation emphasized the value of being resourceful, saving money, and living within their means. They also instilled a strong sense of patriotism in their children, emphasizing loyalty to the country and a willingness to serve in the military if needed.
The Silent Generation
The Silent Generation (Born between 1928 and 1945) Aka “Traditionalists, Radio Babies”
Major Life Events:
- Korean War
- Civil Rights Movement
- World War II
Parenting Style:
- This generation strongly adhered to traditional gender roles, with fathers typically as the breadwinners and disciplinarians and mothers focusing on homemaking and childcare. Children were expected to contribute and help with tasks like cleaning, cooking, and caring for younger siblings. Open communication about feelings and emotions were uncommon.
Baby Boomers
Baby Boomers (Born between 1946 and 1964) Aka “Boomers, Trailblazers, Hippies”
Major Life Events:
- Moon Landing
- Woodstock
- JFK Assasination
Parenting Style:
- Many Boomers prioritized their careers, which led to the rise of “latchkey kids” who spent significant time unsupervised. Compared to previous generations, Boomers were more open to communication and discussion with their kids. However, the power dynamic remained largely parent-centric. A smaller subset of Boomers adopted a more relaxed approach, allowing their kids more freedom and autonomy to explore and learn from their own mistakes.
Generation X
Gen X (Born between 1965 and 1980) Aka “Latchkey Kids, MTV Generation”
Major Life Events:
- MTV Culture
- Rise of the Internet
- Watergate Scandal
Parenting Style:
- Gen X parents place a high value on independence and self-reliance. They encourage their children to think for themselves, make decisions, and learn from their mistakes. Their own experiences growing up as “latchkey kids,” often with working parents and less supervision than previous generations, heavily influenced their approach to parenting. They encourage passions and interests through extracurricular activities, hobbies, or self-directed learning.
Millennials
Millennials (Born between 1981 and 1996) Aka “Gen Y, Me Generation”
Major Life Events:
- The Great Recession
- September 11th
- Rise of Social Media
Parenting Style:
- Millennials value strong emotional bonds with their kids. They foster open communication with their kids, encouraging them to express their feelings and opinions. Millennials are more likely to share their parenting experiences on social media, documenting milestones, seeking advice, and connecting with other parents online. Many Millennials are concerned about social issues like climate change, inequality, and diversity.
Generation Z
Generation Z (Born between 1997 and 2012) Aka “Gen Z, iGeneration, Zoomers”
Major Life Events:
- Never knew a life without cell phones and digital media
- Election of Donald Trump
- COVID-19 Pandemic
Parenting Style:
- Gen Z parents prioritize open and honest communication. They believe in creating a safe space for their children to express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns without judgment. They’re more likely to discuss sensitive topics like mental health, sexuality, and social justice with their kids at an early age. Gen Z parents are highly aware of social issues like racism, inequality, and climate change. They strive to raise their children to be socially conscious, empathetic, and accepting of diversity.
Phew… what an evolution!
As we can see, we’re all shaped by significant historic milestones, technological advancements, changing values, and more. It’s important to respect our differences and the value we each bring through our vast individual experiences. Whether it’s a biological parent, a grandparent, or a special parent-like figure in your life, make time to let them know how much they mean to you. Today, tomorrow, and every day, we honor and celebrate the role of a parent!